Written to be checked, not believed.
Every matrimonial platform says it takes privacy seriously. Here is the specific, checkable version: exactly who can see what, what our own staff can and cannot do, and what happens when you leave.
What a stranger actually sees.
This is the real reveal ladder, not an illustration of one. Move the control and watch the profile open up.
A stranger who found your profile in search
This is all a stranger ever sees. No photograph, no full name, no number.
Five things that are true by default.
Display name, age, city, manhaj and practice. Nothing that identifies you to someone who knows you.
It lives in a separate table reachable only through a function that checks the credit ledger and, for a sister, her wali's release.
Each one carries a watermark bearing the viewer's own member ID, so a leaked screenshot is traceable.
Set your profile to Karnataka only and nobody outside Karnataka can find, search or contact you. A bug in a screen cannot leak past a row-level security policy.
Enter the numbers of relatives, colleagues or neighbours. Any account registered to those numbers never sees your profile.
What we cannot do either.
The interesting half of any privacy policy is what the company restrains itself from. These are enforced in permissions and row-level security, not in a handbook.
A moderator on the sisters' desk cannot open a brother's record at all. It is not hidden from them, it never reaches their browser.
Including profile edits. If a member of staff changes your words, it is recorded against their name and you are notified.
They cannot. Message access requires an open report or ticket on that conversation, and it is logged.
We do not, and the business model does not need it. You pay us in credits; you are not the product.
We keep the verdict, not the document. Originals are purged after the retention window.
Getting out is as easy as getting in.
Download everything
One request, machine-readable, everything we hold about you.
Pause instead
Come out of search and suggestions without losing anything. Reversible any time.
Delete permanently
Profile, answers, questionnaire, conditions, biodata and share links, gone. Not a hidden setting and not a support ticket.
What survives
Records we are legally required to keep, such as payment records, and anonymised moderation outcomes. Nothing that identifies you to another member.
The numbers, including the awkward ones.
Published because a platform unwilling to say how many profiles it rejects is telling you something.
Read the rest before you decide
We would rather you spent twenty minutes on our safety pages than signed up in thirty seconds and regretted it.