For families11 min
A practical guide for walis
What a guardian is actually responsible for in the marriage process, what is customary rather than required, and how to run it without making it harder for everyone.
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The things nobody tells you first.
Written to be useful whether or not you ever create a profile. Where a question is disputed among the scholars we say so rather than picking the convenient answer.
Process9 minute read
Twenty questions worth asking before the nikah
The questions that actually predict whether a marriage works, and the ones that only feel important. Written to be asked with a wali present.
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- Why a list helps
- On the deen
- On the household
- On character
- The ones people skip
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Deen8 min
What conditions to write into a nikah
Continuing your studies, where you will live, the mahr. What is worth stipulating, what is customarily assumed, and where the scholars differ.
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How the nikah process actually works, start to finish
From a first proposal to the walimah: who does what, in what order, and where most families lose time.
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Marrying as a revert
The specific difficulties reverts face in the marriage process, and what to look for in a family that will handle it well.
Read itDeen6 min
Why we do not put photographs first
The case for a photoless default, what the deen says about looking, and what actually happens to a photograph once it is on a matrimonial site.
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